there are a lot of people on this website who are incredibly, flamboyantly wrong about things, but theyre also like……clearly in gigantic amounts of pain, and arguing with them on the internet isnt going to change the situation of either their wrongness or their pain
#here i go talking about transphobes and terfs
#listen most terfs and transphobic women have been severely harmed by trans masc ppl and we have to establish that
#not as an excuse but as a turning point i guess
#like i acknowledge the harm i have also done and vlabeling anyone as evil is not going to move us forward as a community
